<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post112985143493677986..comments</id><updated>2009-07-04T09:13:34.007-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Mike Dowell in Memorium: Monday 09-03-2001

It occurred to me I was vague i...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/feeds/112985143493677986/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html'/><author><name>Jo</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02846742395561891234</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>12</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-1158675233537312762</id><published>2009-07-04T09:13:34.007-05:00</published><updated>2009-07-04T09:13:34.007-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Dear Jodi, My heart goes out to you. How much you ...</title><content type='html'>Dear Jodi, My heart goes out to you. How much you have been through. I&amp;#39;m so very sorry. I don&amp;#39;t know if there is anything left to say that could help at this point but please know this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this most difficult time.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/1158675233537312762'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/1158675233537312762'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1246716814007#c1158675233537312762' title=''/><author><name>Charli and me</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05130237985686101636</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-8236606854699753846</id><published>2007-02-07T11:59:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2007-02-07T11:59:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>a terrific tribute, getting it down in writing, so...</title><content type='html'>a terrific tribute, getting it down in writing, so that the pain is shared, and the good parts are always remembered. &lt;br /&gt;you did well</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/8236606854699753846'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/8236606854699753846'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1170871140000#c8236606854699753846' title=''/><author><name>David</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15850033622948636957</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-8974685032117622468</id><published>2007-01-10T04:40:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2007-01-10T04:40:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to ...</title><content type='html'>I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to share this very special post on your blog.  You are such a selfless person being willing to share such an intimate and personal experience which has enriched my life and I am sure many others.  I know that sometimes I need reminding to take a little more time for myself, to kiss my children a little more often, to tell my husband I love him more, to enjoy the special moments, and to relish in the everyday, so thankyou for reminding me...Take care and I hope you had a lovely christmas.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/8974685032117622468'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/8974685032117622468'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1168425600000#c8974685032117622468' title=''/><author><name>Unimum209</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00330833741696885104</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-116299512876599119</id><published>2006-11-08T08:12:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2006-11-08T08:12:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh my.  I am a member of the Diabetes Online Commu...</title><content type='html'>Oh my.  I am a member of the Diabetes Online Community and found your comment on Bettercell's blog and decided to check further.&lt;BR/&gt;Wow.  Powerful post.&lt;BR/&gt;Hope things are currently going well for you.  &lt;BR/&gt;My best wishes.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/116299512876599119'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/116299512876599119'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1162995120000#c116299512876599119' title=''/><author><name>Minnesota Nice</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02170043587010711783</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113966315389994500</id><published>2006-02-11T07:05:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2006-02-11T07:05:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>You did a wonderful job writing down this painful ...</title><content type='html'>You did a wonderful job writing down this painful experience. I cannot imagine how you must have felt, particularly with a new baby. You sound like a strong woman, and I wish you luck.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113966315389994500'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113966315389994500'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1139663100000#c113966315389994500' title=''/><author><name>Pattie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17137623815858524087</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113597945115026951</id><published>2005-12-30T15:50:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2005-12-30T15:50:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Jodi, I was in tears almost the whole time I read ...</title><content type='html'>Jodi, I was in tears almost the whole time I read this. I don't know how you managed to write it and I can't imagine how hard of a time it was for you.&lt;BR/&gt;You are very strong and Mike was very lucky to have you, I'm sure you feel the same about him.&lt;BR/&gt;I couldn't read this and then just click away without having said something...anything...even though I don't feel like I know the right thing to say.&lt;BR/&gt;I WILL however remember your advice of offering to call people if I should ever find myself in this situation.Thank you for sharing this.&lt;BR/&gt;God Bless.&lt;BR/&gt;Dawn</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113597945115026951'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113597945115026951'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1135979400000#c113597945115026951' title=''/><author><name>overactive-imagination</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07553628997947332189</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113596026056806793</id><published>2005-12-30T10:31:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2005-12-30T10:31:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Jodi,I am right with you. I just read this and was...</title><content type='html'>Jodi,&lt;BR/&gt;I am right with you. I just read this and was recalling the way my husband passed away, too. Our stories are similar and they are different;  if you'd like to hear mine, let me know.  I am so sorry for your great, great loss.  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;The Future Oncology Nurse</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113596026056806793'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113596026056806793'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1135960260000#c113596026056806793' title=''/><author><name>Third Degree Nurse</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02198906424165170492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113202727542725642</id><published>2005-11-14T22:01:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2005-11-14T22:01:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Jodi, I have been blog-hopping again, and found yo...</title><content type='html'>Jodi, &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I have been blog-hopping again, and found yours, originally just to your profile page, but when I saw this memorial, I chose to come here, first. This entire blog is a nice memorial to Mike, and has really touched me. You are blessed to have Ariana as a living memorial to him, as Two became One in her. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;As a nurse, I have seen many stories like yours in real life, and I have to agree that "Is there anyone I can call?" is one of the perfect questions to ask. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I could hear your pain in the statement "Oh, God, not like this!" I cannot imagine the shock, and all of the other feelings that had to have come charging you at that moment, including denial, sadness, guilt, anger, fear, etc. I hope you are ok today. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I raised three alone after a totally different set of circumstances, and now have four grandkids. I will pray for you and Ariana. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I hope you finish your schooling for RN (have not read the other blog, so you may have...?) for while it is a very difficult career and can be very exhausting in many ways, it is also very rewarding. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;God bless!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113202727542725642'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113202727542725642'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1132027260000#c113202727542725642' title=''/><author><name>WICatholic</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12325420326584754119</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113141654148510239</id><published>2005-11-07T20:22:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2005-11-07T20:22:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>You are a strong woman, with a wonderfull heart. T...</title><content type='html'>You are a strong woman, with a wonderfull heart. These memories will always be with you along your life and may they always bring a smile to you and your daughter. Live to love every moment of life.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113141654148510239'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113141654148510239'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1131416520000#c113141654148510239' title=''/><author><name>Shawn T Lippert</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08732728187853644090</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113124681302640881</id><published>2005-11-05T21:13:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2005-11-05T21:13:00.000-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Jodi, I just read this post.  I know it has been a...</title><content type='html'>Jodi, I just read this post.  I know it has been awhile.  I really admire how well you've done.  Bless your heart.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113124681302640881'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113124681302640881'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1131246780000#c113124681302640881' title=''/><author><name>Windfall Woman</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11856442990966763787</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113037511806816562</id><published>2005-10-26T20:05:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2005-10-26T20:05:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>My sympathies to you about your friend and neighbo...</title><content type='html'>My sympathies to you about your friend and neighbor, thanks for reading.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113037511806816562'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113037511806816562'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1130375100000#c113037511806816562' title=''/><author><name>Jo</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02846742395561891234</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01171435724516246248'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-113029634612194964</id><published>2005-10-25T22:12:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2005-10-25T22:12:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I know you wrote this almost 2 months ago but I ju...</title><content type='html'>I know you wrote this almost 2 months ago but I just found it tonight.  I can feel your pain in the post as if it just happened, not 4 years ago.  I am sitting here in tears just like when my neighbor called to say her husband had passed in the night, just 2 weeks ago........</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113029634612194964'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/112985143493677986/comments/default/113029634612194964'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html?showComment=1130296320000#c113029634612194964' title=''/><author><name>TriMom217</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05856283425652165278</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://mikedowellmemorium.blogspot.com/2005/10/monday-09-03-2001-it-occurred-to-me-i.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16624328.post-112985143493677986' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/16624328/posts/default/112985143493677986' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>